Let's be honest: homestay isn't for everyone. Cross-cultural relationships can be awkward, and can get pretty difficult at times. 📣 For those who see the value in trying, who choose to embark on this adventure despite the risks, it helps to normalize discomfort. I explain what this means and how it connects to leadership in this excerpt from my book, …
Gifts come in all shapes and sizes
This was the best gift I could have hoped for this year: my book has arrived! Now it will make its way from the printer to a store near you... For many, the holiday season is all about giving. Yet for some host families and students, navigating this time of year can raise all sorts …
Redefining “normal” habits
Travel, like homestay, gives us perspective on all kinds of things. It also reminds us what we can't take for granted... Did you know? Canada is one of the few countries in the world—along with the US, Australia, the UK, parts of Northern Europe, New Zealand, Japan, and Tanzania—where everyone flushes toilet paper. Residents all over the …
The Power of Perspective
I hired a sensitivity reader to edit my manuscript, and I’m grateful for their suggestions.I was prepared for a harsh critique after reading an article from another author who said sensitivity readers “corrupt literature” and they “sullied” her memoir to “suit their agenda.” My editor had also warned me to brace myself, that their words …
Ten Conversation Starters About Culture
I was chatting with friends recently about PDA (Physical Displays of Affection) and how it varies across cultures. It reminded us of several other fun little examples of the ways culture shows up in everyday interactions. Talking about these differences draws attention to the assumptions we make about our own culture and what we think is "normal." You …